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Emotional Jumping: The Cost of Monkey-Branching

Ever heard of “monkey-branching”? It’s when someone lines up the next relationship before letting go of the current one.
And while it might seem smart or protective—what it really signals is emotional fear. It’s a survival strategy that avoids vulnerability and delay discomfort. But in doing so, it delays growth.
If you're stuck in this cycle or have been hurt by someone who is, this week’s Relationship Rescue episode breaks it all down in a way that’s real, relatable, and rooted in growth.
What Monkey-Branching Says About You
You’re scared to be alone
You’re avoiding conflict or discomfort
You’re craving attention more than connection
This habit isn’t just unhealthy—it’s unfair. It creates confusion, false hope, and emotional chaos for everyone involved.
How to Break the Pattern
Be honest when things aren’t working—don’t ghost or breadcrumb
Ask yourself: What am I afraid will happen if I’m truly single?
Learn to complete emotional cycles before starting new ones
Monkey-branching might feel like a safety net—but it’s often a trap. Real security comes from within, not from your next “option.”
💬 Tired of emotional avoidance and unstable dynamics? Book a 1:1 coaching session and let’s create the clarity and boundaries your heart’s been craving.
🎙️ Listen to this week’s Relationship Rescue episode for a deep dive into patterns that keep us stuck and how to build something healthier.
Much Love,
