5 Things That Actually Build a Strong Relationship (That Aren’t Just Love Languages)

Let’s get real: Love isn’t enough to keep a relationship strong. If it were, half the people we know wouldn’t be in therapy or group chats decoding texts. 😅

So what does build a rock-solid relationship? I’m glad you asked.

🛠️ Here’s what actually matters:

1. Repairing quickly after conflict — it’s not about avoiding arguments, it’s how you bounce back.

2. Listening to understand, not defend — even when it’s uncomfortable.

3. Staying curious about your partner — even if you’ve been together 10+ years.

4. Consistent check-ins — not just when things feel off.

5. Being on the same team — not proving who’s right.

🎯 Try This Challenge This Week:

• Ask your partner: “What’s something small I can do this week to make you feel loved?”

• Set a recurring 30-minute no-phones check-in once a week.

• Do one thing together that has nothing to do with logistics.

Love is a practice. And when you build it on trust, curiosity, and shared effort? It’s unshakable.

🎧 Want more tools to build real, lasting connection? Tune in to Relationship Rescue — new episodes every Monday.

Much Love,
Valery Molone

www.coachvalerymolone.com